Today started with a free morning. Most slept in and then parted ways: to walk along the seashore, to get breakfast, or in my case, to follow Shane, Ben, and Leo in a mini adventure just fifteen minutes away. We saw beautiful jewerly showcased and decided to stop in the store. My first impression of the store owner was that he was pretty built -- that was an understatment. Shortly after proving our intrest in his work (he handmade many of the jewerly) he told us that he was going to go to San Francisco, CA to meet his friend, Arnold Schwarzenegger. At first, I was not sure if he meant that it was his dream to meet him, but then he showed us his championchip photos for body building, clothed in awards and all. It was crazy! He was extremely built! He had many titles that I could not keep up with...all I can remember is "master of ... " Anyways, he was very kind. He then shared with us that he was from Syria, and that he had escaped around 5 years ago. He had beautiful traditional neckalaces made with the inspirations of his hometown in Syria. We spent quite a bit of time and money on the Jewerly, but it was well worth it. We then headed back to the hotel to regroup and then made our way to the Tarlabasi Community Center. Below is an image of the walk there:
This area of the town is made up of minorities in Turkey - Syrian refugees, Gypsies, Africians, nontraditional families - a concentrated area of low income families. The buildings that were standing and were the homes of people living there were barely kept, and some buildings did not have walls on four sides. It was an unforgetable view as we walked past children playing, and both women and men working (of all ages) through the streets to find the community center. I did not take photos of those buildings. Anyways, we had trouble navigating because there were no street signs. Nontheless, Turkey showed us their hospitality once again and helped us ask around and walked us to the location we were looking for. Once we arrived, we went up to the community center with a lobby/work area, and one small classroom. The Tarlabasi Community Center (Tarlabasi Toplum Merkezi TTM) is a non-governmental organization that was founded in 2006 for the purpose of supporting the equal participation of the residents of Tarlabasi, one of the multli-dimensionally disadvantaged regions of Istanbul. Since 2006, TTM, has provided social, psychological and educational support and consultation for more than 5000 disadvantaged children, adolescents and women in Tarlabasi. Since their move to this singled classroom building, they have had to cut down on their activities due to location. Today, our class presented an activity to the students (about 15) on Gender. There were four categories 1) girls, 2)boys, 3)both, and 4) neither. The students then had a pile of description words and had to agree as a group to which group they thought the words would belong. The students were so engaged and debated with each other on what should go where. Based on the awswers we could see they had many examples based on their own neighborhood. The students debated for a long time and without much guidence was able to turn to us leading the activity and told us that everything could go in both, except maybe "good behavior" since both girls and boys could be "bad." It was such a rewarding experience watching the students so engaged.
* Photo soon once permission to show children is approved... for now, some art made by students to try to cover up the bare walls:
We took group photos then headed to our next meeting: LAMBDAistanbul - an LGBTI Solidarity association that strives to raise awareness and education to empower the istanbul community of gender issues and equality. They wish to include gender identity in the constituion and add gender discrimination definitions of hate crimes. The activists start by explaining some history of the LGBT movement, and describe how elecitions are being affected by this movement (the general elections for parties is this upcoming Sunday). Early last week, our group met up with LGBT activist who identifies as gay, and explained an intresting opinion: lesbians have it easier than gays since they are almost "going up in the social class" since they are more masculine and while gays are more "feminine" and are thus brought down the social class in traditional settings. One of our students brought this opinion up to see what LAMBDA thought. LAMBDA disagreed with the comment, explaining that men will always have advantages over women because there will always be an invisable wall for women. Making it hard for them to express theirselves since most of the time, traditionally, their bodys are not really "owned" by them. The example given was about a woman who reached out to the LAMBDA explaining that she was 26, who had to quit her job and change her life since her parents locked her in the house after telling them she did not like men. Whereas for males it is unheard of to have a 26 year old man who will have his family lock him up for telling them that he liked men. They also explained that Men + feminine = Gay, but women + masculintiy = still a woman. More information on LAMDA can be found here: http://www.lambdaistanbul.org/
Tomorrow we are headed to Capadocia and will resume our blog then!













